How To Build Self Esteem In Your Teenage Daughter
July 23, 2008
Being an adolescent has often than not been difficult for most boys and girls.Studies have shown that when puberty sets in, the confidence of boys is likely to increase while the girl’s self-esteem tends to go downhill. The repercussions can be damaging at best and damaging at worst. Girls who do not feel good about themselves are very likely to suffer depression and engage in self-destructive behavior ranging from eating disorders, self mutilation to risky sexual behaviors. It is thus important to be there for them during these... Read more »
Short Elegant Prom Dresses
July 14, 2008
A new generation has arisen and it is out there looking to make its mark. This year young women in high school are changing the look of proms. More and more young women are choosing short elegant dresses for their prom. Around thirty percent of all prom dresses this year sport knee or above lengths. What Teens Think Longer no longer means fancier to most teen women, nowadays formal can mean a short and elegant prom dress, as well as the more traditional long dresses. Many feel more comfortable in shorter dresses and say that elegant but short prom dresses are easier to dance in. And while... Read more »
7 Common Mistakes to Avoid When Discussing Sexuality With Your Teenager
July 2, 2008
As a parent, are you apprehensive to discuss sexuality with your teenager? Many teenagers want to be able to discuss sexuality with their parents, but may be afraid to because of the consequence or feel like their parents will not listen, become suspicious. Here are 7 common mistakes to avoid when discussing sexuality with your teenager: 1. Avoidance Parents that are apprehensive to discuss sexuality with their teenagers often play the “Pretend It Is Not There Game″. Parental avoidance and sexuality is a not a good combination when it comes to teenagers. Sexuality... Read more »
Parental Relationship Soured Over Interracial Romance
June 17, 2008
As an advice columnist specializing in Black and interracial relationships, I frequently receive letters from both parents and children seeking understanding and guidance in navigating the conflicts which arise in their relationship. The issue of interracial dating is fraught with the greatest amount of emotional upheaval for both parties. A reader writes: “My situation is probably typical, but for me it’s very confusing. My parents adopted me from Korea. They are White. I am 19, almost 20 years old and seriously involved and engaged to a Black man. I love him dearly for who... Read more »
Learning Respect For Adults
June 12, 2008
I wanted to write about something wonderful that my 14 year old son did for me yesterday. He bought me a bunch of flowers. Big deal you say. Well, actually for me it was enormous. You see, I am a divorced person with four children, three of them boys. Did the boys ever see my ex husband buy me flowers? Possibly a few times but it was definitely not the norm. Did the kids see their dad treating me with respect? Not always. In my opinion the boys saw a pretty crazy interaction between husband and wife. And yet, three and a half years down the track, my 14 year old... Read more »
Childrens Mental Health: Counseling and Treatment-From Marengo, Wauconda and Elgin
June 9, 2008
Young people have mental, emotional, and behavioral problems that are real, painful, and costly. They are sources of stress for children and their families, schools and communities. The number of young people and their families who are affected by mental, emotional and behavioral disorders is significant. As many as one in five children and adolescents may have a mental health disorder that requires treatment. Mental health disorders in children and adolescents are caused by biology, environment or a combination. Examples of biological factors... Read more »
Teenagers and Money - 8 Ways to Help Debt Proof Your Teenager
June 9, 2008
While there is speculation as to whether or not we are in a recession, there is no doubt that as a country we are facing difficult financial times. While some may be pessimistic about the current financial difficulty, times such as these can be prime opportunity to educate your teenager about money. With historic foreclosure rates, recurring job losses, and volatile stock market conditions, what is it that you tell your teenager about debt and money? Here are 7 ways to debt proof your teenager: 1. Teach them about interest Interest is a part of money... Read more »
Being Able To Recognise Teen Stress
June 5, 2008
Teen stress is the number one cause of teenage illness in the world. It can lead to damaging psychological and physical issues that may not be readily apparent. Ulcers can be exacerbated by this problem and there is frustration on the part of the parents. There are anger management treatment programs that can help get to the root cause of this stress and help teenagers deal with their anxiety in a more positive light. Parents understand the mood swings teens experience while going through the transition to adulthood, but it does not have to lead to anger and more stress. Teens are going through a period of adjustment. They are leaving behind their childhood and making the transition into adulthood... Read more »
Making Your Kids Bike Safe
June 2, 2008
You get your kids a motorcycle and think about the right size and the right style, but what about making it a little safer to ride on. You may not have thought of that for your kids until now. There are so many accidents on the road that a parent has to remember to work to help their child stay safe. You may have done all the right things when you were looking at a bike for them in the first place, but now they have found a way to try and hurt themselves. A good beginning to the motorcycle parts that you may look into to help is a govener. These will help to bring down the speed of the motorcycle even more.... Read more »
Teenagers And Money - What To Do When You Lose Your Job
May 30, 2008
Q: Recently, I lost my job where I was employed for the past 12 years. It was unexpected, and we do not have a lot of savings. I am concerned about my teenage son and daughter. We live in what I guess you could call a typical “suburban” area where most families earn between $50,000 to $95,000 income. We have a nice house, both parents work, and my children enjoy a “nicer than most” comfortable lifestyle. I do not want my job loss to disrupt their lives, but I also know the limits on our family budget right now. What should I do? A: Given these economic uncertain times, you are not alone in your financial struggles.... Read more »
