Our System Has Conditioned Us For Failure!

In the Asian culture we have been taught to put ourselves down, most of it is due to the way that we’ve been brought up. I remember when I was young , my aunt would use to come over and they would pass comments over to my mum saying, “Do you know, your son is really good at this”? Then my mum would reply,” Nah, he’s quite stupid. He’s not like that.” This is precisely how we have been conditioned to respond in the Asian culture. You’ll find that... Read more »

Directing Your Focus Towards Success

It is not just WHAT we think about that determines how we feel, but also HOW we think about it. Has there been a time when you thought about something you were really motivated to do, like going shopping? Yet, on another occasion, you thought about the same thing and were less motivated to go. Why? The pictures, sounds and feelings that we generate in our mind determine the state that we are in. However, the intensity of our state is determined by HOW we generate the pictures, sounds and feelings. What... Read more »

The Transformation Of Meaning…

Imagine that the company you have worked so hard for in the last 20 years decided that it was time to retrench you because they can replace you with someone at half your salary. How would you feel? What meaning would you give to this experience? Most people would feel angry, bitter and rejected. Because it means that their source of income and security is gone, cut off. They would feel betrayed. They would feel that they have just wasted 20 years of their life. They would feel that they are too old... Read more »

Boost Creativity Using Our Five Senses

Creative thinking can work wonders to human mind and activities. People have been looking out for various methods and measures to boost creativity. Experts believe that creative thinking is directly related to the energy level of human brain. The article below offers you methods to boost your creative side of the brain via utilizing five vital senses. Sight, hearing, tastes, smell and touch are the five vital senses that provide the brain with several pieces of information each second. The reason... Read more »

How To Become a Master Communicator And Influence People

How do we become a master communicator, someone who is always able to influence others in a powerful way? What happens when we do not get the response that we want? We have two choices! We can choose to blame the other person for not being receptive, for being unreasonable, close minded, stupid etc… But you know what? By doing this, there is nothing more we can do about it! We have shut the door on them. For traditional communication theory, when two people communicate, both have an equal,... Read more »

Overcoming All Odds!

We have heard so many stories of people who were born with all kinds of handicaps and despite all the odds stacked against them, they managed to create a life most others can only dream about. Yet, many, despite being born with all the money, advantages, resources and opportunities choose to make nothing of themselves. In fact, many of them end up destroying their lives. Here are some examples. Oprah Winfrey - Street urchin to talk show host extraordinary. What would you say of a child who was born... Read more »

Keys To Dealing With Problems

Here’s a question that many people have asked me,” Adam, do you face any problems?” Here’s my reply to this question, “I have more problems than you.” Many people have these beliefs, that the more successful you become, the less problems you will have. They also believe, the more money you make, the fewer problems you have. Lastly, if you can make all the money in the world, you will have no problems. In fact, through my own experience, the more success you... Read more »

How To Disassociate Yourself From Depression

Do you know someone who is always depressed? They may have had bad experiences a long time ago, but they still get upset by these long past incidents? I had a woman client who told me that her life was full of misery.When she talked about her bad experiences, she started crying and got very upset. I found out that she had a pattern of associating into all her painful memories. So, even though these incidents took place about five years ago, she still felt extremely miserable whenever she thought... Read more »

Three Major Keys to Powerful Goals

Are you ready to sit down and start designing the kind of life you want? Before we get started, there are three major keys that every one of your goals must have. They must be: 1) Be Specific & Measurable The more specific you are, the more focused your mind and efforts will be. Specific and measurable outcomes will lead to effective strategies and actions. If you want your health to improve, you must set specific and measurable targets such as ‘how much weight do I want to lose?’ ‘What... Read more »

For Things To Change You Must Change First…

People always say, “What if it is really not my fault? What if the situation is totally out of my hands?” In actual fact we always play a role in creating whatever is happening to us, whether consciously or subconsciously. We create our experiences either through our thoughts or our actions. You can say something emphatically, but if you are thinking something else, people can pick up the vibes, or it will show up in your body language. People who are in control of their lives believe... Read more »