Six Tips To Deal With Your Anger

If you think that you never have a hot temper, you may want to read this. Every person has hot temper. Only most of us have it hidden in our subconscious mind. It is like a sleeping volcano waiting to explode. Once it comes, it acts so fast that you can hardly control it. Anger is one of the biggest causes of fighting or assaults nowadays and has been for a long time. This article shows how to effectively deal with anger. It can be useful for not only those who are prone to be angry all the time,... Read more »

Down Home Strategies for Rising to the Top of the Entrepreneur Game

The American Dream is the classic tale of rags to riches. From new generations of immigrants, to the many who feel they are condemned to forever work a dead end job in corporate America, scores of people seek the American Dream. They become entrepreneurs, self-sufficient men and women building themselves up from nothing to the heights of success. Yet, the game of becoming an entrepreneur often seems too lofty a goal, high and unobtainable for the average person. How then can you achieve your goals?... Read more »

Can You Really Let Go Of Your Huge Internal Struggle?

When I was in graduate school for psychology, we had a fellow student by the name of Allan who was running a successful clinical practice and had joined our program to improve his credentials. He had a remarkable track record of successful case histories. One day, in a casual conversation during a classroom break, Cindy, a student, asked him what the single biggest reason people did not improve after counseling. What he said made the three of us in this little huddle near the coffee machine pay... Read more »

How To Gain Control Of Your Life

“The latter part of a wise man’s life,” said Jonathan Swift, “is taken up in curing the follies, prejudices, and false opinions he had contracted in the former.” The awareness to see one’s own follies, prejudices, and false opinions is in fact essential to overcome one’s psychocultural programming. But before we discuss awareness, we should look at how we went about assimilating programs that didn’t benefit our evolution. Apart from what we have... Read more »

True Success

I did it my way -Frank Sinatra What is a successful life? Success, I believe, is living your life in your own way. It means doing what you love. Money comes when you do what you love because you will do this one thing with passion. Your passion gives you courage and persistence in the face of all obstacles. Even if you lack the skills to do what you love, your passion will drive you to learn those skills. And when you acquire them, you’ll do them better than anyone else. In Sanskrit, this pursuit... Read more »

The Art of Manifestation

We should strive to attain a desireless state. As long as we have desire, we lack. Lack and want are the same thing. Wanting traps us in a world of limitation. Wanting is the greatest enemy of joy.~Lester Levenson. Desire is our enemy. The more we try and satiate desires, the more we want of them. There is no way to fulfill them all. And, in fact, it’s futile. We’re trying to be our own real selves through some secondary means. Desire is either pushing something away from us, as in an... Read more »

Why Balancing Your Polarity Can Make Life Better

Driven by cultural imperatives and inner promptings, we drive ourselves into a frenzy of action day after day. The urgency of what needs to be done and the limited time we have to do it excites us to become excessive in our activity. Eventually, this force, which is kinetic, runs out, and we become tired, drained, and irritable. What used to be states of high-productivity now slip into carelessness and error. And like a machine that has been pushed to an extreme, parts start to collapse. Our health... Read more »

The Importance Of Healing The Past

Everyday I meet people who have a chronic upset that runs their lives, and I notice that they are not even aware of it. Often the pain has become buried in their unconscious; or if they are aware of it, they choose to deny any power to combat it. Yet unless they seek healing, this energy locked up in their mind is a continual drain on their vitality. It is a parasite to their life-force. The first step to true self-help is willing to be candid, notice what hurts, and find the therapy that is necessary... Read more »

Do You Neglect The Power Of Your Mind?

James Allen, who wrote the masterpiece, As a Man Thinketh, talks about the vital power of the mind in creating success. “All that a man achieves and all that he fails to achieve is the direct results of his own thoughts. In a justly ordered universe, where loss of equipoise would mean total destruction, individual responsibility must be absolute. A man’s weakness and strength, purity and impurity, are his own, and not another man’s; they are brought about by himself, and not... Read more »

Follow Your Dream

If you have a dream, follow it. No matter how wild, outrageous, and improbable it may seem. If possible travel on your journey with friends who will support you. Friendship can keep your faith alive long after your energy and hope have been worn away. Another thing you might want to do is to go where your probability of success is greatest. When you work long and hard at the apparently futile, remember that your sense of futility is a lie; it is merely your conditioned mind reminding you of your... Read more »