Conscious Dating: You’re Single for a Reason

One of the hardest things for me to accept is that I create my own outcomes, whether I like them or not, my failures as well as my successes. As a child of divorce I swore that when I got married it would be for life, yet I’ve been married and divorced twice. I wish it were different, but that is the reality I must accept about my life, and since I made my relationship choices, I can’t blame my exes, my mother, father, or anyone else for my outcomes. FATE AND DESTINY I strongly believe... Read more »

Subliminal Seduction - Turning Her On Without Her Even Realising It

It’s laughable to consider that the release of “Subliminal Seduction” by Wilson Bryan Key almost 3 decades ago should’ve caused such a stir. Wilson highlighted how advertisers would insert subliminal sexual imagery into their print advertising in an endeavour to boost sales. Why the stir? Because people were being manipulated without their knowing about it. Shock! Horror! And why is that laughable? Because that is what has been happening for eons anyway, on any occasion that... Read more »

How To Seduce A Woman - The Art Of Making Her Feel Unique

I find it interesting what phrases men use when they’re asking me for advice on how to seduce women. They predominantly fall into the “how to seduce women” camp or the “how to seduce a woman” camp. Now you may feel that the difference between the two phrases comes down to nothing more than semantics BUT there is a subtle difference in the psychology behind each of the questions. When a man asks how he can “seduce women” his thoughts are usually along the... Read more »

How To Get Women … Both Ways

One of the more interesting questions I get asked is “how can I get women?” to which I always shoot back my own clarifying question: “Do you mean ‘get’ as in ‘understand’ or ‘get’ as in ‘get with’?” Now, almost without exception the person asking the question means how can they “get with” women but what is interesting is that if they understood the answer to the first question (understand women) then they wouldn’t... Read more »

How To Pick Up And Seduce Beautiful Women

It’s interesting that anyone should specify picking up “beautiful women” as opposed to just picking up “women” - as if “beautiful women” were an entirely different species to other “women” and therefore required an entirely different approach. Whilst there are some psychological characteristics inherent in beautiful women that maybe aren’t as prominent in their plainer looking sisters, they still have exactly the same needs and can therefore... Read more »

Using The Golden Rule In Dating

The golden rule for dating is rightly “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you”. Most people who go on dates do so in the hope of finding their life partner. They look for certain attributes in the person they are dating, which will make them want to spend their lives with this one person. On the other hand, certain boorish behaviors can be a real turn-off. Your behavior on a date is a sure indicator of things to come. One of the surefire ways of impressing your date is by... Read more »

Finding True Love by Experiencing Your Experience

In the pre-commitment stage when singles become couples, each partner has different hopes and dreams, wants and needs, attitudes and experiences. These differences too often result in relationship failure and disappointment when one or both partners attempt to mold the relationship and their partner to fit what they want, rather than accepting and embracing what is. While we must have a vision and requirements and choose a partner and relationship aligned with what we want, we can’t be so rigid... Read more »

Winning Ideas For Your First Date

Most men conjure up grandiose first date plans that are a sure-fire way to floor their dream dates. While the super-rich may actually be able to fly their date around three continents in a day in a privately-chartered plane, other mere mortals just have to keep their feet firmly grounded and come up with other creative first date ideas that are equally exciting. Fly High; Dive Low Planning a day at the beach just sunbathing is pass. How about planning a day at the beach with an extra twist? Arrange... Read more »

Being in Love without Being Insane

Good for you! You have finally met someone you can really connect with. Maybe you have been on a few dates already, maybe you are only going out for the second time, or maybe you are finally parting after a date that lasted three days. Whatever the situation, you are very close to feeling those four little letters: L, O, V, and E. Whether you are ready to tell that special someone that this is true love, or you are simply ready to let the words flit repeatedly across your brain, there is no denying... Read more »

Have You Ever Used Diversion Tactics On Your First Date?

When you haven’t had time to prepare yourself for your first date and all else is failing, go for diversion tactics. The last thing you want is for an anxious or negative thought to enter your mind. You know you’re doomed as soon as you start thinking, she’s too good for you, or I’m going to stuff up here, or I hope I don’t make a real fool of myself here. As soon as you allow your anxious thoughts to enter your mind, you’re likely to experience the anxious symptoms... Read more »