Child access during summer holidays

Now is the time for divorced or separated parents to make plans for special summer time access. In the summer the usual routine of school and work gives way to vacations and the host of new activities extended daylight hours make possible. For most of the year it makes sense for the kids to spend most of their time with one parent and see the other on weekends or even just alternate weekends. But summer is the time for kids and “access” parents to really spend some quality time together.... Read more »

When My Friends Get Divorced: How Could They Do This to Me?

As a divorce coach, I’m accustomed to the emotional upheaval a person going through divorce feels. But recently I’ve tuned in to the “collateral damage” caused by a divorce–the impact of divorce on friends. Insecurity, grief, resentment, and anger are common reactions as friends are forced to regroup and rebuild relationships with the now uncoupled individuals. If a couple experiences divorce as an earthquake, the effect on their friends is the aftershock. Here’s... Read more »

Steps For When Divorce or Separation Begins: Part One

Disclaimer: I am not an attorney and do not give legal advice. Anything in this article is for informational purposes only. Family law is different from state to state, but there are enough similarities that the information contained here will apply. STEP 1: THE DIVORCE PROCESS STARTS You and your spouse have come to realize that things are not going smoothly. There are arguments, you’d rather be with your friends then your spouse, and there may be long moments of silence at home. Whatever... Read more »

Divorce Laws And Divorce Proceeding

Hitting a bump in the road in the course of a divorce can be extremely frustrating especially when you just want it over and done with. A divorce proceeding can be delayed for several reasons, ranging from custody battles to alimony payments. You will do well to settle all your disputes before approaching a divorce table to avoid delays. A divorce takes two just as it takes two to tango. Don’t be quick to heap the blame of divorce on your ex because if you do, you won’t grow up. Learn... Read more »

Divorce Tips For Women - Preparation Is Key

Are you one of the many women in the world today who have suffered the mental anguish and pain of going through divorce? There is no way to sugar coat it, divorce can be very nasty and lawyers will drag out all of your “dirty laundry” so to speak for the whole world to see. Just so the legal council can try to prove you a bad person (by their standards) or even a “bad mom” if you have kids. If you are considering divorcing your partner it is going to be difficult, but when... Read more »

Getting The Right Divorce Strategies In Place

Divorce is one of the most traumatic events in the emotional lives of many people. People who find themselves in a divorce situation often feel belittled, betrayed, shocked, inferior, depressed, or infuriated. However, it is very unwise to compound the problem by trying to shoe horn a relationship into working when it is beyond hope, although at first every possible solution is, hopefully, discussed and considered by both. It is especially important not to force yourself to try to make a failed... Read more »

Surfing The Internet For Divorce Public Records Information

Anger can be and usually is a lingering emotion after a divorce. Holding on to anger after a divorce can incapacitate you and prevent you from doing a lot of things. A good divorce advice is for you to move on after your divorce and strive to let go of anger. You can get advices and information from the Internet because lots are discussed around the online community about this topic–like divorce public records, divorce statistics, state divorce laws. Children want to blame themselves when things... Read more »

Divorce Tips For Women To Help Get Prepared

If you prepare before the divorce proceedings actually start you will find that it helps to reduce the stress that you feel. By planning a head you are more likely to make much more informed and sound decisions than if you were to rush into the matter. In order to help you avoid some of the pitfalls associated with this process we provide some divorce tips for women relating to those matters you need to think about in order to be well prepared. Tip 1 - Before actually starting your divorce proceedings... Read more »

Tips On Divorce Filing - You Need A Good Lawyer

When you make the decision to file for divorce it is one which should not be taken lightly. In fact it is likely to be one of the most difficult decisions you will ever have to make in your life. So it is important that you spend time looking for the right person to act as your legal representative during the whole process. Below we offer some tips on divorce filing which should help you with finding the right lawyer to act on your behalf. 1. It is important that you do not use the lawyer you... Read more »

Girls, Get your Divorce Attorney Working For you

When getting divorced the biggest cost is going to involve your attorney. Once you have hired an attorney then you need to keep in contact and ensure that they are progressing with your case. Many women make the unfortunate mistake of assuming that the Attorney will just get on with the process and that they shouldn’t interfere. Keeping in contact with the attorney means that you won’t be over looked and that file will stay close at hand. This ensures that they won’t forget about... Read more »