Divorced Dads Tips: Understanding Winning Child Custody

DISCLAIMER: The following is NOT legal advice, nor is it a substitute for legal advice. If you are in Family Court you will need legal advice, so please see a lawyer. Understanding Winning Custody of your children when you are a divorced dad requires a new way of looking at what Winning really means. For example, let’s say that you went to family court, spent $50,000.00 and won custody of your kids. You think “Ahhh, I’ve won.” What if Mom drags you back into family court... Read more »

Divorced Dads Tips: Court Orders That Easily Increase Time with Your Child

Here are some examples of typical problems divorced dads regularly face, and their initial solutions, which you must test and observe. If you are getting the results you want, then see what you can do to gain momentum and acceleration by intensifying what you are doing. However, if it’s making things worse, stop and re-evaluate. Do something different if necessary. SPECIFIED ACCESS ORDERS Danny, can you give us an example of what you mean by specific times? Are you talking like every second... Read more »

Divorced Dads Tips: Christmas and Holiday Access Tips - Celebrate Christmas Day before Mom

While Christmas and holidays, it really comes down to looking at things differently. Part of it is understanding the process of celebrating Christmas, and not letting that process get to you. This is where reframing it will really help. Some of this may sound foreign to you because right now it is an emotionally charged period of time and you just want to get something resolved now and it is not happening the way you want. We encourage you to not give up. Instead, step back and look at this in a... Read more »

Divorced Dads Tips: How to Solve Teenage Visitation Problems

DISCLAIMER: The following is NOT legal advice, nor is it a substitute for legal advice. If you are in Family Court you will need legal advice, so please see a lawyer. ACCESS PROBLEM # 1 Teenagers want to spend time with their dad because mom doesn’t encourage it. What do you do when teenagers don’t want to spend time at a divorced dads house anymore? Especially when Mom is not encouraging visitation, but is actively discouraging it? Here’s what one father asked me: My young teenage... Read more »

Divorced Dads Tips: Winning in Family Court - Yes, I Married Her “Your Honor” Strategy

DISCLAIMER: The following is NOT legal advice, nor is it a substitute for legal advice. If you are in Family Court you will need legal advice, so please see a lawyer. Often, when a divorced dad goes to Family Court, he fails to realize the value of having a GREAT strategy comes down to POSITIONING. In my experience, the best positions to be in are these: (a) person who is no longer angry; (b) person who is levelheaded; (c) person who has not lost perspective; and/or (d) person who still has a sense... Read more »

What to Expect From Divorce Court

What should you expect if you find yourself having to go to divorce court? The answer to this question is not the same for everyone who is faced with their marriage ending. There are various different things that you may have to do for your divorce. You will certainly want to make sure that you are doing everything that you can to make this divorce happen in your favor so that you can get you where you need to be in your life. Try focusing on the things that you can do, the things you have direct... Read more »

HMO Properties Are A Great Way to Get Extra Cashflow

A House in Multiple Occupation (HMO) is a property that has been let out to sharers rather than a single family unit. These sharers can be anyone from students to professional employed people. I am often asked by would be and established property investors, why I invest in HMOs. My answer is simple: CASH. By letting your house to sharers you can receive up to 300% of the income that you would otherwise get. However, it is more common to achieve on average 100% additional cash flow. With this additional... Read more »

Constantly Educate Yourself to Expand Your Mindset in Business and in Life

When you run a business, your own personal attitude and experience is going to come into play on a regular basis. To remain on the cutting edge of both the business world and your personal life, you can benefit by constantly educating yourself in all areas that interest you and pertain to you and your business. Self development is going to be very important to your mindset in business and in life. When you are constantly looking for ways to improve upon yourself, it will show in your business and... Read more »

Win Back Ex - Desperation Will Not Help Much

When a relationship ends, often there is a reaction of missing the other person. Sometimes we can miss the other person so much we actually feel physically ill and sometimes we actually are physically ill. We get headaches, eating causes nausea, we cannot sleep we ache all over. This is a genuine physical reaction to the physical absence of the other person. We sometimes think if we get back together, if we spend time together things will be all right. We may even succumb to begging our ex to come... Read more »

Law of Attraction: Allow and Receive Your Desires

Separation and divorce are two of the biggest rollercoaster rides you’ll ever find emotionally. The Law of Attraction can give you some traction so you can regain your footing and see your way forward in your divorce journey. Our thoughts create feelings, which in turn create vibrations that are either positive or negative. The Law of Attraction states that “like attracts like” and that what you focus your attention on will expand. The first step to using the Law of Attraction is... Read more »