Dating Tips: Attracting a “10
July 16, 2008
If you are interested in meeting, attracting and keeping a 10, then I think you’ll find this letter very interesting.
But before anything else, let’s go waaaay back…
When I was in high school, there was this girl in my class who was perfect.
She was intelligent, cool, and so beautiful that it was hard to look at her (and yet I couldn’t stop my eyes looking)…
She was friendly to everyone and was one of the popular kids in school.
Occasionally we talked and as I look back I realize that we were flirting (I was so stupid to realize at that time).
I was really wanted to ask her to senior prom… but at the last minute I chickened out.
A few years later I realized she had a crush on me all senior year.
I have talked to lot of men and this seems a common experience to them. they missed an opportunity to meet this ONE SPECIAL WOMAN who you crushed on from afar, or the girl had broke their heart…
Ah, the elusive “10,” the perfect girl that every guy wants but never seems to attain.
I have a lot to say about so-called “10’s.” In one sense they are another “breed” of woman, but at the same time, it’s that kind of thinking that makes them so.
Understanding your own fascination with female perfection, and understanding the reality of extremely beautiful women will help you resolve this conundrum, and maybe help you find that “perfect girl” for yourself.
First thing, the idea about “10″ is just a myth. There’s no such thing as a perfect human being. You cannot tell that a girl is more “valuable” just because she looks beautiful than the other girl.
A woman that turns you on and have a great chemistry with you is the only true “10″ and is the one that’s perfect for you.
The world is full of 10’s, you just need to have the skills and ability to approach a lot of women and make an options for yourself.
It will be a failure on your part if you treat women differently just basing solely on looks or on whose much prettier.
Why?
Because a lot of guys do that.
A woman knows what you’re thinking and sees you as shallow.
But there definitely are certain women that seem on another “level” of beauty than the rest. These women get treated much differently than other women.
You need to understand this so that you will know how to treat these types of women.
As what I’ve said, you shouldn’t treat women “differently.”
Let me clarify.
You shouldn’t treat them BETTER than other women. But there are a couple things you need to know.
First, she is sick of guys chasing her for her looks alone.
She wants to be appreciated for her personality more than anything else.
Now for the sake of yours, I”ll be giving you a heads up.
The so-called “10’s” has two different types.
High self esteem, and low self-esteem.
The common type is the low self-esteem 10’s. The women that belongs to this group are used to being wanted for their looks and they know that they didn’t EARN an attention, so they have a guilt complex.
In fact, most of their lives they’ve probably coasted, and are complete dumbasses.
It may sound harsh but I call it like that.
These type of women will respond to jerk-behavior. Taking away their validation will make them flip out and do anything to get it back.
Anything.
(As a side, these girls usually suck in bed and are total head cases when you get involved with them.)
Meanwhile, the high self-esteem 10’s are women that have had a taste of the elite - early from the start they realized that high levels of society were attainable to them, they exert an effort be intelligent, successful and make the most of their lives.
These women are motivated to put an extra effort because they know that they are just a little closer to a great life than everyone else.
Usually HSE 10’s are intellegent, have good attitudes, have a direction in life and have lots of interests beyond being clubbing.
In fact, the most beautiful women I’ve dated didn’t even go to the club. They like to spend their evenings reading, being with their families, or having a nice dinner with friends (or studying if they were in college).
Another interesting thing is that these women are single for long periods of time while in-between boyfriends. Why?
Because they have high standards for themselves, and since most guys are either too intimidated to ask them out, or act too needy and pathetic around them, it’s rare that they meet another man who is on their level.
But here’s the good news. These women are the easiest to attract when you understand The Attraction Code.
Being the best man you can be and being a “male 10″ is what you will get from these Attraction Code.
When you start to embody the Attraction Code you will surely notice an interesting thing.
Occasionally women that are less attractive will be rude to you and you’ll get an odd responses from them- that is because they know they’re not on your level - I call this as Auto-Rejection Mechanism. Some girls will try to protect themselves from being rejected by you, by rejecting YOU first.
But you’ll be amazed to see the responds of the most beautiful and attractive women that warm right up to you as soon as you approach them - whether on the street or in the bar - because they can see that you are on their “level.”
The woman will thinks “finally, a guy who can hang with me; he’s confident and treats me like a real person. And he’s the only guy who’s actually tried to talk to me today, instead of whistling from his car.”
The Attraction Code is intended for these kinds of women. And you’ll also enjoy a lot of “adventures” with all kinds of women, but this is about having the option of dating the hottest, highest quality women.
There are plenty of 10’s out there waiting for you.
Don’t spend another year of your life missing out.
Vin
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