Dating Tips for Men: Time Management - Part 2
July 17, 2008
Young men are taught that their urges is crude and silly, and that it is just a favor that women ALLOWS them to mate with them.
“Doofus dad” syndrome is another societal factor that I’m going on. In almost every TV commercial and sitcom, the “dad” or “boyfriend” or “husband” is a dopey, incompetent goof, and the mom/wife/girlfriend/daughter has to use her superior intelligence to fix the situation.
This leads to the perception that women are “better,” and thus, their time is more valuable than yours.
If your time is not so valuable, then you will feel obligated to give her LOTS OF IT.
But here’s the thing - you won’t be present for most of that time, if you are giving a woman too much time. You will be distracted, resentful, you will give her your “half-assed” attention.
I just realize this after analyzing lots of dates I went on women.
After that I started giving women smaller amounts of my time, but with my FULL ATTENTION.
Aside from making our time better, this creates a VAST ATTRACTION because I left women craving more.
Now my girlfriends can’t get enough of me - in fact, I don’t GIVE THEM “enough.”
Women can’t be pulled to what they already have. You see, “enough” would mean, “overexposure” to me.
I don’t recommend you play games with women and pretend to be busy or whatever. In fact, the proper way to manage your time is by being HONEST.
No games, just be real with her - don’t spend more time that you want.
Enjoy whatever free time you have with women but still with focus on your personal goals. Be the man on the go.
Now in a short amount of time it requires that you are able to meet a lot of women, which I’ll have to cover in another newsletter.
It makes me sad to see men waste their lives chasing and “putting up with” women, and then they are buried in their coffin ALONE.
You should think that women aren’t property that you can keep or somehow bring with you when you die.
It doesn’t mean that you can “keep” the women if you invest all your time with her.
One more thing here - if you start being honest with the amount of time you are willing give to a woman, you may feel GUILTY.
Either she will try to make you feel guilty, or you will feel it on your own. This is ok, it just means you have a weak focus.
You see, it usually comes from the social norm if you are following your true ways.
If you are in the mental habit of adopting the values others try to impose onto you, you will most likely experience some discomfort, tension, guilt, even loneliness at first.
That’s why I set and develop the Attraction Code. It’s all about self-control, finding true path, and letting the real ‘you’ emerge from within.
And no, we don’t intend to impose our goals to you. I think you are capable enough to handle it to yourself, given the proper guidance.
Vin
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